Kimberly Menzies Mourns Late Mother, Will get Blindsided by Usman

On the Thanksgiving weekend episode of 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After?, Kimberly shared devastating information.

Her beloved mom, Sally, had passed away. Kimberly had revealed this information to followers in January of this yr.

She was dealing with the loss. Her son, Jamal, shared that he felt impressed with Usman’s present of emotional help.

Then, Usman blindsided Kimberly. Does she really feel as much as elevating a brand new little one?

Kimberly Menzies returned residence from Nigeria an engaged lady.

Twice-engaged, actually — she and Usman “Sojaboy” Umar each proposed to one another.

Only a few weeks after her arrival in San Diego, nevertheless, Sally grew to become very sick. She handed away.

90 Day Fiance: Fortunately Ever After? viewers are acquainted with Sally.

She is Kimberly’s mom and Jamal’s grandmother. She has appeared on two seasons inside this franchise.

Clearly, her loss of life hit the household laborious.

Jamal admitted to the digital camera that his grandmother’s passing additionally helped him to see Usman in a brand new gentle.

He proved to be a terrific consolation to Kimberly, reaching out to her and cheering her up whereas displaying emotional help.

To Jamal, that was essential. He can see just a little extra of what his mom sees within the alleged “famous person” rapper.

Kimberly additionally selected to channel this household tragedy right into a little bit of a wakeup name.

She made some extent to train extra. She shared with the digital camera that she is quitting smoking.

Kimberly hopes to be round for an extended, very long time. And, after all, she needed to “sustain” along with her a lot youthful fiance.

Kimberly spoke to Usman by way of video chat.

They exchanged loads of affection, as all the time. However there was extra.

Usman had a really, very awkward query to spring on Kimberly. And he wasn’t certain of how she may react.

“I really feel like perhaps I’m going to undertake,” Usman lastly instructed her. Wait, what?

Sure. Usman’s brother, Mohammed, has a son named Mahadi. He’s Usman’s younger nephew.

And whereas clearly we’re all lacking some context, Usman is contemplating adopting him.

No, this was not a joke.

Amongst different issues, it could permit him to fulfill his mom’s mandate that he have a toddler.

And it could permit Usman to take action with out having a second spouse — one thing that he realized may make it unimaginable for him to obtain a US visa.

However between Usman’s skilled life-style and cultural expectations, Usman wouldn’t be the one elevating him.

Kimberly naturally requested who could be liable for precise childcare.

Usman requested Kimberly if she want to increase this boy.

Clearly, Kimberly must give all of this some cautious thought.

On the one hand, this implies a viable approach of marrying Usman with no second spouse or visa troubles. However on the similar time, it could imply turning into a father or mother. Once more.

Kimberly already did each stage of parenting. Her son is an grownup. She wasn’t certain if she was able to strive it once more from the start.

Kimberly sat down with Jamal at an East African type restaurant in San Diego and steered that he meet Usman.

She needed him to hitch her on her subsequent journey to Nigeria.

Jamal agreed. He’ll quickly meet Usman … until one thing goes incorrect earlier than then.